Tuesday, November 12, 2013

What makes you anything: Have Arabs lost their sense of Inherited Fashion?

Here is another piece that I wrote maybe three years ago on Arab traditional fashion. A good example on writing skills at an amateur stage. Keep in mind, these are opinions of mostly undergraduate students studying in an American university in Egypt. Very opinionated, don't consider this as a generalization of Arab traditional fashion.

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The Kafiya scarf
Dazzlllee - with sequins and colorful shrouds! What is your version of an Arabic outfit? Is it necessary to retain traditional values? And what is it that makes you a part of a race?

What is tradition? In simple words, it is simply the preservation of cultural values over time. Values however, is not only restricted to morals, habits and food but also clothing—fashion. Every country has its own traditional clothing from the colorful Kimonos in Japan, the Kanga in Kenya and let us not forget the Sari that Indians proudly wear even in a foreign country. These countries and others have preserved this icon of identity over generations as ‘their’ fashion. So what is ‘Arab Fashion’?

Thai student studying Arab Studies described Arabs as “those people who consider themselves Arabs sharing particular collective ideas such as tribe, culture, language and religion (in some cases)."

First of all we need to familiar ourselves of the term Arab. Arabs, modernly in geographic terms, are known to be those mostly who come from West Asia and North Africa. Most of them may share common languages, culture and traditions. When outsiders think of the word Arab, they always think of the image. They would describe their image of the outfit as “colorful and long, pretty ornate with embroidery and stuff like that,” Political Science student from the US said. Another student when asked about what he thinks when the term Arab is pointed out the words: “Hijab, white Thoub and the Kafiya."

So People from the West and Far East have a colorful idea of the clothes ‘Arabs’ may wear. Either that or veiled and let’s not forget the famous Kafiya. This is what most people would argue is what the whole world sees.

So do we still conserve our traditions? In another way, do we still wear traditional clothings from time to time? A few others like Petroleum Engineer student from Yemen and Communications Media Arts student from Egypt have said that they did wear it but only for occasions such as the Thoub and Galabeya.
PictureMostly seen among Arab Gulf countries
Alternate spellings used
The Thoub or Thobe is a garment with long sleeves and the length varies depending on the country’s tradition. It is mostly seen in white but there have been instances of other colors like brown, dark blue and black. The Galabeya or Jelabiya is known to be used by the Persian Gulf women and is also seen in Egypt. It is used as a casual or evening wear. Egyptian student studying Marketing Communications said that she does “not like it” and an Egyptian student studying Biology explained that he “normally don’t find it important to wear or pretty."

And why don’t we wear these traditional clothes if not for special occasions. It seems that we’ve had a lot of influence from the West. We are certainly influenced by them through mass media. The effect it has is not only to the Middle East but reaches globally. Another Egyptian studying Communications, when asked whether she wore any traditional clothes answered, “No, because it is trendy to wear Americanized style of clothes like jeans."

Maybe westernization is a modern term for many. So what would we describe a ‘Modern Arab’ as? French student studying Biology says that a Modern Arab is usually “westernized” from what he sees in his university. When asked whether there is anything for them to retain their traditional image, he explained that “there is no link between the clothing and culture."

Well, that means clothing is not important to retain traditional customs. Another Egyptian studying Communications said: “It is not really important to wear traditional clothing and it all depends on your personality."

However, it is not seen as something necessary as Egyptian student studying Journalism said: “I don’t wear any traditional clothes because I don’t own any, and also there is no reason that requires me to do so."

Then again, does wearing these traditional outfits really make you an Arab?

Friday, October 11, 2013

Giving you the 3ein: Every bad thing is probably because of someone giving you the EYE!

This is so embedded in my head that I sometimes think it's because of the EYE that I am condemned to such an unfortunate fate ... no! it's coincidence, an event, a happening! If the power of the EYE were true, I'd cast it at that couple who wouldn't shut up at the cinema!

What is the EYE dun-dun! It is like let's say, a part of superstitions? Something like that. When someone stares at you for too long, and your pants tear, then yup, it's probably their fault. Or if you had this amazing haircut and your hair falls off the next day, no it's not a result of all that chemical you put in your hair, yup it's the EYE. Or as it said, the Ein. (eye in Arabic)

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I bet that Hollywood movie "The Eye" was inspired by this cultural belief!
Here are two things I remember that I have heard from people:

  • During the Gulf Cup, I believe in 2012. Cousin of a cousin (how surprising) was telling me how Oman won one of the cups in previous years because of ... wait for it ... a spell that they've cast on the field! Freaky! Wow! (Might not really be Ein, I guess I should put this under the category of spells and potions.)
  • My cousin who has dogs, and loves them. Those dogs had lots of pups and they all died except for the first two. The vets reason: Either of an infection or ... wait for it ... the EIN!

Ahh .. I just lost a lot of calories. NIGHT! Gotta hide from the Eins during the night!

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

Free shisha, ladies!

PictureOne of the entrances to Extrovert Cafe, Adliya. Courtesy of a friend TW.
If you're a shisha addict, or just enjoy it from time to time, there's a place in Adliya called Extrovert Cafe that has ladies' nights on Mondays and Wednesdays.

We've actually stumbled across this maybe two years ago, and ever since, their offer still stands. However, it wasn't as obvious as before as they used to hang posters about it. Now we simply assume. So I think it's not valid after midnight, as they almost charged us once but changed it when we told them we were there since 9 PM. I'm guessing it's from 7 PM to 11 PM. But don't take my word for it. And don't expect them to tell you.

Weird story. It's been a while since we've been there so I ask my friend to call them and make sure. She does, and the guy tells her to just come and we'll see ... So he doesn't give a straight answer despite that the offer still stands, instead he just asks us to come and see what happens. It's a great trick if there is no offer but in this case, I'm not sure.

Anyhow, it's not a bad place, really nice, cozy and sometimes too cold but there's an outdoors area. We usually go there and get maybe a drink each, and split for food if we're feeling hungry. The prices are standard, not very expensive.

The place is in Adliya, close to a group of cafes like Bindaira, Don Vito's and Maggie's. Not hard to miss. If you know where the massage place Dassange is, then it's right close by.

On a different note, smoking is bad for health, bwaha.

Thursday, August 29, 2013

Saudi Arabia on October 26, 2013

So I came across this website during one of my browsing, and I think it's going to be a really exciting event. If they do actually create some sort of pressure on the parliament to seriously address the issue of women driving in Saudi, then this event could actually be successful. Not to be naive but women have tried to stir public attention in the past and it didn't necessarily go very well. There is an argument that Saudi women don't really want to drive ignoring the large numbers that actually do. However, if the ban on women driving were to be lifted, women who want to drive can whereas the latter can simply choose not to. In this sense, no one will be forced to do what they don't want to do.

Good luck to the women over there.

For those interested, I found this link after I stumbled across this blog: Saudi Women Driving

Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Davey Wavey walks naked in NY

Just recently, I came across this guy's youtube channel. He's a funny guy, very open about his homosexuality, which is nice, given the shit they go through. One particular video that I loved was of himself in New York. He had a sign that asked, "What do you fear?"

And he'd just let anyone write it on any part of his body, until he had to take off whatever he was wearing. This video is great because he shows how strong he is in doing what he believes in, especially when he's trying to prove something. How many of us would walk naked just so we tell strangers that their fears can be simply washed away?

Check out.

Davey Wavey,
 

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

A brief on my past travel adventures ... and more to come

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On a bus trip to El-Gouna and Hurghada, Egypt
Before 2009, I only ever visited Philippines and Emirates, with my family of course. August 2009 marked an important time in my life because it was my first time traveling and living alone ... in Egypt. You see, I finished now and no longer reside there. It was the most fruitful period of my existence so far, and I hope my future sees more exciting moments, seeing as I now feel like I'm stuck in an hour glass. I don't intend to hint at pessimism but rather a longing to travel again, and this is one thing that I don't see as impossible.

I know I'll enjoy writing these, as I've always been meaning to start a journal - the best thing anyone can do.

Monday, June 3, 2013

Scholarships and Student life

You know what's amazing? Scholarships.

Many of my friends have tons of debt weighing on them by the time they graduate. Is education really worth chaining yourself to a bank? Well, you have your own answers.

Why not look for a scholarship? What's a little working until you find the right program? Or what's studying in an affordable university you despise, and earning yourself a scholarship for maybe a second undergraduate degree or maybe straight to masters?

You don't "waste" your life away by looking for the right program, you gain experience if you're working.

Scholarships are everywhere and available. Especially for master's. You need to look and you need to "dedicate" your time to .. you know, fill application forms? Yes, people say oh they can't find what they're looking for when in fact they haven't tried. Oh and don't tell me,  "I tried like three of them and I never got accepted."

NO! You look again, and again and again. I just got a rejection letter from a scholarship program after I flew my ass back in jumpseat over a nine hour flight, just to submit my application. Life never looked so possible, I decided to work and later find the right programs. (Or I was just lazy to do it again)

Fun fact, scholarships are not only. Bachelor's. Period. Master's. Period. PhD. Period.

There are short term programs for those who want to be entrepreneurs, seekers of community service or internships abroad, or just plain 'ol meditation programs to upkeep peace through special herbs or something ..

Anyway, you need to row, row, row your boat, gently down the, what? I mean look, look and look.

Embassies in your country have programs scholarships for the country's citizens, educational institutions offer a wide range of activities, maybe your school knows something, your employers might be able to offer you educational benefits. Or simply look at any school you want, and check out their website. Some of their scholarships specifically target regions, or languages, or ethnicity, or discipline, or grades, or anything!

Or if you want to put some work into it, then try graduate assistantships or similar programs, where part or full tuition is covered for your work contribution to the school. They differ from school to school, some even provide allowances or even housing.

Great site I found, which is like a scholarship hit list: http://www.scholars4dev.com/

And good luck.

The easiest thing in the world, is to be a student.